forgive and forget.. can you do it?

it takes a really magnaminous person to be able to forgive and forget. human beings are tagged to be naturally grudgeful....our brain are more structured to remember the bads than the goods. guess we are born too intelligent la..the highest grade of living things.

will you forgive a close friend who has done all sorts of bitchy mean things to hurt you, making pre-assumptions of you, accusing you of doing something you didn't, thinking the worst of you, most importantly, chucking all the years of true friendship down the drain while doing so.. this is when you wonder if you really know the person well. maybe not.

可能我比较爱恨分明吧。。 no such thing as due to circumstances, therefore i accused u and didnt trust u.. ya right lor. if you're indeed true friends, and we're not toking about aquaintance type of friendship...say at least 1-2 years type, nothing can explain how you can bear to say such hurtful stuff "in a moment of anger, whatever.. without considering the person's feelings... it's sheer emotional torture...in this particular case, it was a year of emotional torture. this evil person didn't even feel regretful of what she has done in that year. and fyi, friends don't do this to each other.

she must be too densed to realise that what she had done was such a huge mistake and took like donkey time to feel remorse, wanting to make up and be good friends again.

will you take her back? pretending nothing has happened? forget the times when she trampled on you even though you're so helpless and lonely studying overseas?

to the once tortured soul: just expressing my thoughts la...coz really think she's super gross.. hate her. but i'll respect your noble decision coz i can never ever do it i think.